Amen! I am an a**hole when I don't agree to [more] meetings, refuse to sit on [EDI] panels, do not offer to take notes, won't make time to comfort crying students, won't set up the agenda/calendar invites etc.
"there is a collective expectation that #women will do more of the #work that never makes it into an organisation’s press releases or weekly updates."
https://www.ft.com/content/c510a895-81b5-47f5-b394-32d8257dce2b