@somcak A lot of people blame the Mennonites, but the health fad moms are making this so much worse.
We have a complete lack of systemic parental training and support. Something like Finland's baby boxes that are fully tied into post-natal care and benefits would be amazing. https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-22751415
I want to emphasize that this is usually not the health mom's fault. When it's easier to find information on the internet on how to take care of a kid than what the government provides, that's a failure of the government to provide services.