@kaia >sounds like you found a great place! choir is great idea.
it is insanely fun, especially since i was already looking to sing, but the feeling of community definitely is what makes it amazing here
>depending on whether you are looking for a partner, those older ladies can probably set you up as well

for a partner maybe in the future, if i do definitely after i get baptized (octobre), right now i am too focused on the faith itself, making sure i read up on the bible and research as much as i can, because if i get a partner now then it would probably distract me from the faith.

and i do wonder how appealing to women the concept of "Catholic Grandma approved Date" is, like sure they know i do firefighting and all that, but still i wonder if anybody takes that deal at all.

but for now i am still in the faith, and the focus is there for now, Dating can wait until after i properly set myself in the faith and started working proper