Adrianna Tan (skinnylatte@hachyderm.io)'s status on Friday, 20-Dec-2024 13:45:42 JST

There are real safety concerns in many places, but if you’ve existed for any amount of time in *any* society as a woman, you do have a lot of experience navigating safety on a daily.. hourly basis? It’s not so different lots of places.

There are some specific cultural norms you gotta be really savvy about, but often I find that safety-plaining men over-index on the danger of ‘other men’ without so much as a real understanding of the dangers of men at ‘home’.