Husband not contributing to household chores it's not entirely made up by kike media though, to the point that a lot of married women can relate to the fact that their husbands can be very incompetent.
I remember seeing a TikTok of a mom saying that her husband went to pick up their kids in the wrong school, and all the women in the replies were saying that their husbands don't know where their kids go to school.

I believe this might be a conflation of both feminism shifting the power dynamic in the family more towards the woman, and "boy moms" having free range of action (boy moms tend to want their sons to be toddlers forever, so all the "incompetent" adult men were probably raised by this type of mom). I was actually talking about this in another thread.