@WrenArcher @libramoon that kind of behavior is actually part of the multi variable calculus I have to run in my head when deciding to use the restroom when I'm out. I'm a transfemme enby, and often can "pass" but it's not a guarantee. A lot of time, I'll default to the men's room anyway because typically if men see a "woman" in the men's room, they'll respectfully excuse themselves or assume they made a mistake. If I don't pass in the ladies room, though, the cost feels more serious.