@kaia I use an Xbox controller, but the quality of Playstation-, Xbox - or even non-China-junk cheaper controllers like the Logitech F710/F310 is roughly the same, they're all fine.

If you can, try borrowing a few spare controllers from someone else and test which one best fits your hand size, which layout of the buttons vs the little analog sticks is most comfortable for you and has a weight that feels good in your hands.