@charliebrownau @Jens_Rasmussen @RikaDerufu It's a zoomer mentality, that if something can't be done exactly right, with all of the tools they think they need, then it's better not to attempt it at all. I don't even think it's because of indulgent parents, snowflake culture etc. I think it's a form of learned helplessness. Like a little kid who doesn't want to build a sandcastle because the tide will wash it away. There are vacant parts of their life experience, things never attempted that could have helped them out and given them joy rather then suffer their deprivation.

It must be shit for guys trying to find a nice woman, they have to build themselves up and when they are finished: shoulder the burden of building her up too.