@mangeurdenuage @coolboymew there's also a world of difference between cuddling and gooning. my sexual needs are fulfilled just fine by myself, but i can't hug my fist, y'know? it's nice to have a warm body to cuddle, and a brain attached to that body i can pick at my leisure.

you straights have a lot less casual stuff like this, but it's a lot easier to find a partner because half of the world is literally available. the percentage of gays is very very low in general, and i know only a small subset of that would be compatible with my freak ass. i take what i can get, i enjoy the intimacy