@hellomiakoda gfd, I get that too, from people who are supposed to be family... and strangers also have told me that I'm a troll, toxic, manipulative, vindictive... and I am none of those.
My own father accused me of trying to be spoiled, he took that idea to his grave.
I try to be good, every second of everyday of my life, often to my own detriment. But still, most people who come across me will treat me like I'm some evil monster.
Theory: fear of unknown, they feel the unknown is bad.
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