@hj AGP itself shouldn't be stigmatized TBH. Sadly some overly aggressive AGPs have ruined it for everyone. I have mild AGP and when I mention this I sometimes have people making really weird assumptions about me. Like, I had someone ask "have you mentioned to your girlfriend that you're AGP??" and I'm like ... it's not who I am, bro. :blobcat-comfysweat: It's not that I "am" AGP, I just have mild AGP. It's not like I'm doomed to behave in certain ways and can't help myself or anything. I've never shopped for or worn women's clothes, for example. I'd probably enjoy it but CBA. It's not that serious...

It's like someone liking pineapple on pizza. If your partner is disgusted by pineapple on pizza, then you just don't put pineapple on the pizza when you have pizza together. (And if she doesn't want you to have pizza without her, then you just don't ever get to eat pizza with pineapple anymore... Which is fine?? It's not like I'm gonna die if I don't eat pizza with pineapple??)