@skinnylatte I have one of these, too, though it's now pretty out of date and much less well-organised:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1-8Au5WTD4LzOjfmrBUHCgQu1ZXf9UL9DUKxK4KSZK-Y/edit?usp=sharing
I think I learned how to think about eating out from my SG & M'sian queer friends and uni cohort — you never just recommend a place, you recommend the dish(es) to try there.