@kaia That would have been very helpful in my dating days... But that was the 1990s, and the other dudes would probably have kept on telling me that only wimps respect that. Ah, peer pressure. That's almost as much fun as root canal drilling. 😕
I can't say how happy I am to be "off the market" since 2003. I would rather become a hermit in outer Mongolia than ever doing that dating thing again.