@Humpleupagus @PNS @WTFPurpleAlpaca whether you lost or not make no difference at all for anyone. As long as you can have a somewhat happy life nothing else matters. Of course having children will give you a much more purposeful existence. But as long as the years spent on this earth are filled with a lot of experiences and great highs it makes no difference having children or not. Though having children is always the best way forward simply because 90% of people that don't have children can't handle it. It eventually gets to them especially growing old