@Erato_Heti honestly though I feel like the binary/nonbinary dichotomy (ironically, yet another binary!) is itself only meaningful if someone thinks that "binary" genders are a thing that exist or matter at all beyond being badly formed analogues to the active/passive nous that are used to control people based on arbitrary marks of sex. despite being """binary""" because I only use she/her pronouns I think of being a woman as only being binary if one has some material dependency on the male class. otherwise all of the feminine is non-gendered.