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   • Erato Heti
   @Erato_Heti honestly though I feel like the binary/nonbinary dichotomy (ironically, yet another binary!) is itself only meaningful if someone thinks that "binary" genders are a thing that exist or matter at all beyond being badly formed analogues to the active/passive nous that are used to control people based on arbitrary marks of sex. despite being """binary""" because I only use she/her pronouns I think of being a woman as only being binary if one has some material dependency on the male class. otherwise all of the feminine is non-gendered.
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     Erato Heti (erato_heti@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Monday, 24-Mar-2025 07:50:52 JST Erato Heti

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     @nyx trueee
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     • Erato Heti
     @Erato_Heti I sat my binary transfem ass down and LISTENED
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     Erato Heti (erato_heti@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Monday, 24-Mar-2025 07:50:54 JST Erato Heti
     My Disillusionment in Russia by Emma Goldman but instead its My Disillusionment with Nonbinary by Vivian Heti (they ironically tend to fall back on gendered language and patriarchal biases way more often than me and show very little interest in listening to what I have to say).