I will give a non-subtle "hint" as to what I'd want to see in a crisis of masculinity "guru" who pops into the media spotlight:
I want to see someone who takes a no-bullshit approach to one of the primary reasons why masculinity so often goes toward the toxic:
Because boys/men are socially trained from day 0 to adulthood to center dominance over others and violence as core components of their identities as male people.
Start there. So much horror flows outward from that flawed basis of self.