@polarisera A few weeks before he died, my partner had to *attend* the funeral of his step brother by zoom because he was told that even if he attended in person he would not be able to touch or go near anyone there. He cried all the way through the service he watched on his laptop.
When he died, we had to wait over eight months until they finally bothered to do a post mortem, which still listed *covid* as cause of death (of course it did). I was helpfully told that I would be *allowed* 20 people at a funeral (how kind of them). I was also contacted the day after his death by track and trace to inform me I had been in contact with a person who has *tested positive* for covid (I won't repeat what I said to her).
I will never forgive the people who did this or the people who went along with it. They're busy now pretending that it never happened or that it was just to be safe and they overreacted, but they will do it all over again if it suits them.