@themilkman Assuming what you said is true, and I don't think it is most of the time, you would then get a feeling of power from rejecting her charms, and thus flexing to her that she cannot defeat your great willpower.

On the other hand, it is still more humiliating to be considered "not worth controlling" than having to reject the woman.

I also want to know why you keep going to where these loose women go to find their "victims", if you hate their behavior so much?