Yes, people have just lost good old fashioned Christian charity. It’s like, “I somehow found MY spouse, so you need to struggle and find your own too.“ If we can help them, we should. I am extremely passionate about his because I was one who tried and failed many times myself. Now I’m too old and too sick, but it would have really helped if people tried to help. It takes a couple of selfish gens to destroy and couple selfless gens to rebuild.