there's a thought.
what if you could pass on messages through the rainbow curtain through intermediaries in some standard way

so for example tagging

@ssfckdt@mastodon.social!@bananarama@mstdn.social would give @bananarama an option to verify the message is something he'd be OK with passing along to @ssfckdt and then doing so.

For some accounts the *only* way to get a message across might be for there to be someone to vouch for it