I am so so so tired of advice that's boils down to: here is how to find places where isolation alienation hasn't fully set in and you can use the old ways.

NO! NO! NO! I want new ways. I want ways that actually contend with the isolation and the destruction of civic society. We don't live in a society. I don't.

I don't have co workers. I don't go places. I don't have people I can talk to at the shops. We live in pods, traffic, and queues. I hate it. I hate it. I hate it.

Stop telling me to be nice to my neighbours. They're not from here. They're not going to become my allies. Stop telling me talk to people at church. They're either 80 or want women pastor. Stop telling me to be nice to my coworkers. I have none, and when I did I got fired for not towing the line and no one was willing suffer any kind of inconvenience even though they agreed with me. This entire fucking country is willing to say in private that things have gone too far or that they in private opposed $CURRENT_TYRANNY, but not one was willing to pay any kind of cost. These people are fairweather cowards

If you have ideas that don't reject the way things are I'll listen. But I'm so so so tired of increasingly desperate attempts at digging deeper to suck from the dried bore. There is no water. We don't live in a society