@Hoss @Nudhul @KuteboiCoder this pestering is annoying but its basically about denial of agency

you are not being asked to admit more people to your home. you are being told a caravan of people is coming tomorrow and you'll just deal with it. when people respond, "hey wait, we don't even have enough for ourselves" the controller says shut up bigot don't be racist.

people aren't even being given the choice to admit people, that's the problem