@sun @georgia In my case I rarely initiate conversations with people, and I get very anxious around women, so it's a no go for me. I can hold conversations with them still, but I'll be colder and keep some distance. I don't know how to deal with this, which is why I have hope for getting with someone from fedi because here talking to everyone is easy!
As for matchmaking... I'm having some hope as I have asked someone from here with help with that