This also relates to women's excessive faux empathy being tied entirely to their concern with how others view them 😏 it's not that they genuinely care whether or not they're racist for instance, they're entirely concerned about if OTHERS view them as racist and the social discredit that entails. When it comes to relationships with men, most of the time except for a few outliers, they don't truly love a man for who he is or particularly care about his frustrations or pains or whatever makes him happy, she only cares about the status he brings and what he can do for her to fill her bottomless wanton void