@mjdigspigs @jeffcliff @Nudhul It's hard, we have to pray and give it to God. Holding onto it can cause us to fall into bitterness and despondency which is a sin. Ask Him to help you with forgiveness and He will 🙏 it took me a very very long time to forgive my mother for the horrible things she did to me and I feel much better now that I used to. I held onto a lot of anger but I had a good friend help me realize that I could easily turn into her if I did not stop and have some compassion for her.