dude, this thread literally started with you going behind my back to make false and derogatory statements about myself and about an organization I care a lot about, because you completely misunderstood something I wrote and jumped to hateful conclusions

talking to you has always been like that

it's just not worth the risk

it's never pleasant to talk to you because the too-high risk of your reacting by blowing up some figurative pillow, and then refusing to regather the feathers, leaving it for myself to row my reputation back to where it was before

we don't agree on everything, and I am convinced that your way of dealing with hate and intolerance is no better than other forms of hate and intolerance that I fight, it just has different targets, and it fails to respect the targets' right to exist. I don't expect to be able to convince you of it, though, so it's probably best for us to agree on disagreeing about that, and to agree on leaving each other alone