@lukeshu @lxo I sympathise a lot with being charitable, and as you say it does make life a lot easier. But I count several trans people as loved ones and I see them attacked daily through dog whistles and subtle innuendo designed to poison attitudes towards them, and I cannot be charitable to that. It's an attack on people I love. Does it harm my mental health? Probably. Does it feel uncomfortable for others less tuned to this kind of thing? Certainly. But I will not let a single dog whistle by.