I made a cheesecake joke, calm down woman.

That's a false dichotomy btw, there's a much healthier middle ground where you aren't totally obsessed with how much/little sex you are getting and just live your life. Your stance is like saying "Be anorexic or you'll be obese", neither is good for you.

> Meanwhile it is men who ruin women.

People ruin people all the time, get over your issues or hit the wall and die alone idgaf I have no vested interest here. Again, I just made a cheesecake joke 🤷🏻♂️