@dogslurp @chainsaw_appreciator @TrevorGoodchild @Wormwood @ZRDR_DelRio its related to one of his most overrated comics where he said that you get to define what adulthood means, to yourself. every justification for that viewpoint even if it is mildly defensible is cover for some feeling of inadequacy one feels when they notice older people could seem to do so many things they fail at so they have to pretend that fixing your own shit, or taking care of a whole family, or being able to clean a whole house or dozenzs of other signs of competence aren't actually good, or that like, if your parents were good at something thats intrinsically tied to why they weren't a better parent in some other way so they dodged that bullet by never learning to change car oil