I had a friend in college who invited me to Thanksgiving. I said yes. She gave me a heads up that her grandma was "super old and from a different time, so she might say something racist." So I told her "Then heads up, your granny might be getting cursed out over the mashed potatoes and cranberry sauce." 🤷🏿♂️
She was shocked, and asked if I was serious, and couldn't I just, y'know, ignore it? It's Thanksgiving!
I told her KYP (Know Your Personnel). You should've known that won't work with me.
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