@teratology @anemone the difficult part is sorting people that genuinely feel this way and will continue to, people that think it'd be fun, and parents pushing it for clout. the benjamin SOC has been highly effective at preventing regret cases (which was also its primary purpose.)

dialing down the gatekeeping carries risk and, well, tribes gonna tribe. conservatives only want to talk about regret cases. blue hairs only want to talk about successes.