@tayfonay I think he might be insufferable on many counts, but this particular thing might be due to living in an insufferable culture where there waa a vast difference between how you treat the people who paid you, vs the people who were paid by you.
We get better, but even now when I see that cashiers at the grocery store are forced to stand all day just to not look lazy, when their real job is to help me, not make me feel superior, I am shamed by the system that thinks this is a service.