@bonifartius I has seen all kinds of betrayal, even the worst cases. so it's not generally a good idea to trust anybody, after such an experience. I don't trust people whatever they say. and people over here are living hard life so they aren't very open and/or easy going. relarives sometimes kill each other for living space, houses and flats. because it's something not everyone can earn in his life due to too high prices for real estate. in some families people have long lasting cold war between members. I was lucky and our family was relarively friendly and we hadm't any conflicts for money/inheritance, etc. but this is quite common problem.