We (very rightly) talk a lot about safe spaces, and too often we're compromising those principles online. So many people stuck on using Meta and "X" (and, yes, Bluesky) are so fucking miserable in those online places because the codes of conduct are so fucking shitty, and we wouldn't accept them in-person, so we should reject them online. It's not about keeping up with the normies, it's about building the spaces we want the world to be comprised of.