ToyotaTime@mk it kind of depends.
The "don't be fat and wear your hair long" is basically just a rule of thumb.
Youthful beauty is important, but most older men I know would be willing to settle for a 30 or 40 year old woman if she takes care of herself.
Younger is preferred, but not all guys have access to top shelf women.
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