It is nowadays. Dudes are not getting any. Back in the 90s, early aughts.... it was easier to meet girls and have relationships. Well, I dunno. I don't have any problems getting women, just.. guess ya can say keeping quality ones. To be honest, the last year, I've gotten kinda sick of women's bullshit since I dated 12 last year. Yes. 12. They're exhausting, in more ways than one.