I think I shared my dumbest coupling strategy before, but since it worked again:

when setting up the date with the guy as the matchmaker, I casually and jokingly say that he does not have to do anything special like withhold his cum and not look at porn for 7 days to raise his testosterone. because there's only this one study and it would be silly. then I check whether he's already fortifying himself internally to do this.

if that worked, I go to girl prepping the date and mentioning that he's a good guy. and that he might be a bit pent up because he's lacking female affection. and that she should not hold this against him. because lesser men would just masturbate before date to release the tension. but I could see him as a guy who would try hard not to.

so that's it, thanks for attending my TED talk