My two cents (as someone who walked and sadly sometimes walks that path).
Please take this more as - I like to do it this way and it helps. (sometimes 😬)
F*ck the thinks I "should do", what are expected from me by others.
Doing things my way when I want them to be done.
Do things I enjoy and that I find interesting.
Sometimes we obviously have to do stuff we don't like, but it should not be 80% of our life.