@QueenValhalla Well, I would simply ask what pronouns they prefer and if daughter is still a term that they think that accurately describes them.
I think that's the most respectful way to go about it. Just ask and respect their wishes.
And yes, legal weed is always nice. Though, I'm not even in a legal weed state. If burning a plant and inhaling the smoke is a crime, then I'm a criminal.🤷♂️doesn't bother me one bit to say that.