Yeah, the shrink i saw once told me i also should be more assertive and stuff. But when you are in a disadvantageous position like this i really think i have no saying on the matter since they will, without a doubt, hang the fact that i'm living at their home over my head. I could pay rent so they leave me alone but they just yammer about "Get a job and be productive".

I understand they want me to leave home by being unbearable and overbearing, but it will reach a point that if i find a good stable job and i have enough savings, i will leave and never return. I will never speak again to my family, only after both of them have died. You might think it's cruel, spiteful and heartless, but i am cruel and spiteful.