@Hoss @Alex_Fog @ForbiddenDreamer @TimeSpent From what I've seen from close friends, a BPD ex is more financially, emotionally, and criminally harmful than heroin. I know some former heroin addicts and ≈$10k and a lawyer can get your life back to normal provided you don't let yourself slip. You'd be lucky to get away from BPD ex carnage for 5x that amount.