I am not saying everyone has to do this, I'm not really sharing this even to give advice, except maybe to say that I grew up in the right-wing and I wish people would not underestimate what it's like when that information is ALL there is around you and is so strategic in how it targets your deepest values and the things you take pride in. Without ever giving ground on things we need to stand for, it is important to tell people how they can move toward us