I tried an Icelandic dating app & I noticed a lot of guys answered “What’s a turn-on?” with “A positive, up-beat, bubbly attitude” (or something similar). It got me thinking - while I’ve met a lot of women who are positive most of the time - when have I met a man with a “positive, up-beat personality”- I guess never irl. What does that mean? Lol. Are women supposed to be constant-cheerleaders for men and women get none of the cheerleading in return? Um, wtf?