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   Bø!rge (forteller@tutoteket.no)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Aug-2024 06:55:43 JST Bø!rge

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   • Carly Sagan

   @carlysagan Sounds like the men wants a Manic pixie dream girl. Which is totally understandable, they seem fun in the movies. But I don't know if it's a good idea to speak all unlikely phantasies out loud. Also: Hollywood is probably bad for us.

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     Carly Sagan (carlysagan@mastodon.social)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Aug-2024 06:55:44 JST Carly Sagan

     I tried an Icelandic dating app & I noticed a lot of guys answered “What’s a turn-on?” with “A positive, up-beat, bubbly attitude” (or something similar). It got me thinking - while I’ve met a lot of women who are positive most of the time - when have I met a man with a “positive, up-beat personality”- I guess never irl. What does that mean? Lol. Are women supposed to be constant-cheerleaders for men and women get none of the cheerleading in return? Um, wtf?