It's not perfect, I still get randos, I still get instances where people might be over moderating a bit, or under moderating a bit; but it doesn't rise to the level of a PROBLEM because the ethos is there. Which is why my experience is generally "fine" or as "fine" as one can possibly expect online given how mad the shit I post always makes SOMEONE, even though their moderation policies and activities could not be further apart.
It's not the system, it's the intent.