"the one men have for women should be steeper."
first of all...
what men want
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and
what women want
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are two differen things.
men and women are not the same.
most men select women for their reproductive traits (young, fertile, not a pain in the ass)
most women -even today- select men for their survival traits (protector and provider)
men have to earn their value,
women are born with it.