For example: I say "god this song sucks".
What I mean is "I don't like this song, I find it irritating and unpleasant to listen to, and I want to casually complain about this feeling".
But instead this telephones all the way to "People who like this song are bad people who don't deserve rights" when someone else's relationship with me isn't secure enough.
The solution is _not_ we all talk like the second example. Among other reasons, it's ESL-unfriendly and also fucking exhausting.