@lanodan @AnarchoNinaWrites Yes, another big problem with doing DMs is that there's no privacy-respecting way to reconcile it with moderation. The only winning move is really not to play.
If you have a platform where people interact with others they don't know and trust and have their own full control over who can contact them and how, don't let people create things on your platform that isn't not ethical for mods to look at.