You're not going to admit it, but you know I'm not wrong when I say the reason we're here is that you felt attacked by criticism about fedi, and you responded in an all too predictable, extremely privileged way that essentially says "it works fine for me, it's your fault you got hurt because you're doing it wrong."
Even if you're right, and I'm not sure you are, there was nothing noble or helpful about the way you responded. Staying in your lane was totally an option here. You chose wrong.